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作       者:Lahey, Jessica

出  版  社:Harper

出版时间:2015-08-01

字       数:39.7万

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NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLERIn the tradition of Paul Tough's How Children Succeed and Wendy Mogel's The Blessing of a Skinned Knee, this groundbreaking manifesto focuses on the critical school years when parents must learn to allow their children to experience the disappointment and frustration that occur from life's inevitable problems so that they can grow up to be successful, resilient, and self-reliant adults. Modern parenting is defined by an unprecedented level of overprotectiveness: parents who rush to school at the whim of a phone call to deliver forgotten assignments, who challenge teachers on report-card disappointments, mastermind children's friendships, and interfere on the playing field. As teacher and writer Jessica Lahey explains, even though these parents see themselves as being highly responsive to their children's well-being, they aren't giving them the chance to experience failure - or the opportunity to learn to solve their own problems. Overparenting has the potential to ruin a child's confidence and undermine their education, Lahey reminds us. Teachers don't just teach reading, writing, and arithmetic. They teach responsibility, organization, manners, restraint, and foresight - important life skills children carry with them long after they leave the classroom. Providing a path toward solutions, Lahey lays out a blueprint with targeted advice for handling homework, report cards, social dynamics, and sports. Most importantly, she sets forth a plan to help parents learn to step back and embrace their children's failures. Hard-hitting yet warm and wise, The Gift of Failure is essential for parents, educators, and psychologists nationwide who want to help children succeed.
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Dedication

Epigraph

Contents

Introduction: How I Learned to Let Go

Part I: Failure: A Most Valuable Parenting Tool

1. How Failure Became a Dirty Word: A Brief History of American Parenting

2. Why Parenting for Dependence Doesn’t Work: The Power of Intrinsic Motivation

3. Less Really Is More: Parenting for Autonomy and Competence

4. Encouragement from the Sidelines: The Real Connection Between Praise and Self-Esteem

Part II: Learning from Failure: Teaching Kids to Turn Mistakes into Success

5. Household Duties: Laundry as an Opportunity for Competence

6. Friends: Accomplices to Failure and the Formation of Identity

7. Sports: Losing as an Essential Childhood Experience

8. Middle School: Prime Time for Failure

9. High School and Beyond: Toward Real Independence

Part III: Succeeding at School: Learning from Failure Is a Team Effort

10. Parent-Teacher Partnerships: How Our Fear of Failure Undermines Education

11. Homework: How to Help Without Taking Over

12. Grades: The Real Value of a Low Score

Conclusion: What I’ve Learned from Letting Go

Acknowledgments

Notes

Bibliography

Index

About the Author

Credits

Copyright

About the Publisher

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