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How I Overcame Social Anxiety (And How You Can Too!)电子书

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作       者:Tobias Atkins

出  版  社:Lifestyle Entrepreneurs Press

出版时间:2016-04-28

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"If you've ever suffered from anxiety problems, you will find the answers in this excellent book." - 5-star review DO YOU FEEL NERVOUS AROUND PEOPLE & DON’T KNOW WHY?Are you tired of worrying what others are thinking of you all the time?Do you feel uncomfortable in public and can’t ever seem to relax around people?Are you tired of that critical voice inside your head that’s always putting you down?Have you tried to overcome your social anxiety & shyness before and nothing worked?Do you believe you’re ‘beyond help’ or ‘born this way’ and things will never change?I suffered from professionally diagnosed social anxiety disorder and generalized anxiety disorder for over a decade. The majority of my 20’s I was on strong antidepressant medication. Instead of being the best, those were the most unhappy years of my life. I know how it feels to live with social anxiety 24/7, 365 days a year. The suffering, the shame, the lack of understanding from family and friends. The feeling that no-one really understands what you’re going through. I understand.?This is why I can help.?This book documents my entire journey through social anxiety; the factors that caused it and the exact steps I took to find my healing and regain control of my life. In this book, you’ll learn:The real causes behind your social anxiety & shyness (it’s not what you think) My step-by-step guide for overcoming social anxiety & shyness (follow what I did)How I learned to stop fearing the opinions and judgments of othersHow to let go of perfectionism and always putting yourself downWhat I learned from spending over $35,000 on alternative therapiesHow to finally start liking and accepting yourselfHow to lower anxiety and self-consciousness in minutes, not yearsThis book provides you with a proven roadmap to overcome social anxiety, explained by someone who has actually gone through the process and found a way out of it.? Readers' reviews: "Top-notch, sincere, and well-written. (...) This book has been incredibly helpful and consistently insightful." "If you've ever suffered from anxiety problems, you will find the answers in this excellent book." "This book is so much better [than others about social anxiety] because of the author's very personal battle with it. It feels like I'm getting advice from a really close friend who knows exactly what I'm going through." From the Author? Hi I'm Tobias.My life has been full of ups and downs. I am a living proof that you can overcome your biggest fears and achieve anything you want in life as long as you just have the courage to take the first step and not give up. I spent most of my teens and twenties depressed, lonely and on strong antidepressants. By age 27, I had given up on ever overcoming my social anxiety & shyness.?Even worse than that, I had given up on myself. I was my own worst enemy, always calling myself harsh names like ‘loser’ and ‘ugly.’ I hated myself and didn’t believe I was worth very much. I thought I was ‘weak’ and ‘broken’ for having social anxiety and felt inferior to just about everyone in the world.?Like most people, I grew up believing the narrative we are sold by society. You were born confident or you weren’t. You were good with people or you weren’t. You either have it or you don’t, and I certainly didn’t, better luck next lifetime. I am here to shatter that myth for you. To show you that you can overcome social anxiety and be anyone you want to be.?My self-improvement articles have been featured on blogs such as Lifehack and Pick The Brain. My passion in life helping others realize their own greatness and live a life of freedom and passion. ?
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Cover Page

Title Page

Copyright Page

Foreword

Acknowledgments

Introduction

What Is Social Anxiety (And How Do I Know if I Have It?)

Why Get Help?

How Can I Help?

How to Get the Most out of This Book

Born This Way? My Story

Contributing Factors: There Was More than One

Chapter 1 - Thoughts & Beliefs

The Two Prison Fences

Wanting Someone Else to Fix You

Acceptance without Judgment: I Stopped Beating Myself Up

You Should Stop Shoulding Yourself

I Focused More on the Solution (and Less on the Problem)

I Took My Power Back (The Victim Mentality)

“Hi I’m Tobi and I Aim to Please” (People Pleasing)

You Do You & I’ll Do Me (Some People Will Always Judge)

I Stopped Accepting Other People’s Opinions as Facts

Are You a People Pleaser and Approval Seeker?

Who Am I? (Get Clear on Exactly Who You Are)

Are You an Honest Person?

Why Do I Care So Much What Others Think of Me?

Are You a Mind Reader?

Perfectionism: I Let Go of My Need to Be Perfect

Accept Yourself (Flaws and All)

I Choose to Feel Good

Self-Love (I Learned How to Love Myself)

I Stopped Looking for My Worth Outside of Myself (Self-Love, Part 2)

Unhelpful Beliefs (Knock Out the Kingpins and the Rest Will Fall)

Reframing Negative Beliefs

The Deadly “I’m” Disease

Reminder: Remember What You’re Playing For

It’s Not the Event That Hurts: It’s the Meaning We Give to the Event

I Stopped Taking Things So Personally (Not Everything Is about Me)

Watch Your Mouth! (I Worked on My Self-Talk until My Worst Enemy Became My Best Friend)

Your Thoughts Are Not You

Predicting the Future (Worst-Case Scenario Thinking)

Introspection Checkpoint

The Man in the Mirror (Self-Image)

Self-Image Exercise

Visualization: The Blueprint to Becoming the Person You Want to Be

Visualization Exercise

I Remembered My Good Points and Wins

I Stopped Comparing Myself to Others

“Search Your Feelings, Luke.”

I Chose My Company More Wisely

Give Thanks & Give to Others

EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques)

What to Do When You’re Feeling Anxious or Self-Conscious (This Is What I Did)

Irrational Fears

Fear of Death

Easier Said than Done

Summary

Chapter 2 - Actions & Exposure

Facing Your Social Fears

Introversion Isn’t a Weakness

Fear of Failure: Processing Failure and Rejection the Right Way

Things Will Be Different Now (You Have the Mental Tools)

You Need to Have a Strong Reason WHY

Confidence Comes from Practice

There Will Always Be Pain

The Uncomfortable Comfort Zone

Courage: The #1 Confidence Builder

Rationalizations & Excuses: Are You Lying to Yourself to Justify Your Avoidance Behaviors?

I Stopped Making Excuses

I Held Myself Accountable

Deathbed Exercise

Conversation Techniques & Social Skills

Social Confidence Building Exercises: Some of the Ways I Became More Social

Designing Your Own Social Exposure Plan

It Has to Be a Regular Thing

Take It in Baby Steps & Celebrate the Small Victories

I Let Go of the Outcome

You Win Some, You Lose Some—Either Way, People Don’t Care

We Learn by Doing

Keep Seeing the Big Picture—It’s a Gradual Process, Not an On- Off Switch

Summary

Chapter 3 - Healthy Diet

Lifestyle & Diet Play a Huge Part

Antidepressants

Xanax

Natural Antidepressants

Alcohol

Recreational Drugs

Healthy Eating

Chapter 4 - Lifestyle Choices

I Cut Out Stress from My Life

I Turned off the News and Stopped Reading Internet Comments

Exercise — I Went to the Gym

30 Minutes of Sunlight and Nature Every Day

I Decided to Work Fewer Hours

I Began Meditating Every Day

Living a Balanced Life

In Closing

Further Guidance

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