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Trapped in the Mirror电子书

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作者：Golomb, Elan, PhD

出版社：William Morrow

出版时间：2012-06-01

字数：44.6万

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In this compelling book, Elan Golomb identifies the crux of the emotional and psychological problems of millions of adults. Simply put, the children of narcissist offspring of parents whose interest always towered above the most basic needs of their sons and daughters share a common belief: They believe they do not have the right to exist.The difficulties experienced by adult children of narcissists can manifest themselves in many ways: for examples, physical self-loathing that takes form of overeating, anorexia, or bulimia; a self-destructive streak that causes poor job performance and rocky personal relationships; or a struggle with the self that is perpetuated in the adult's interaction with his or her own children. These dilemmas are both common and correctable, Dr. Golomb tells us.With an empathic blend of scholarship and case studies, along with her own personal narrative of her fight for self, Dr. Golomb plumbs the depths of this problem, revealing its mysterious hold on the affairs of otherwise bright, aware, motivated, and worthy people. Trapped in the Mirror explores. the nature of the paralysis and lack of motivation so many adults feel stress and its role in exacerbating childhood wrongs why do many of our relationships seem to be "reruns" of the past how one's body image can be formed by faulty parenting how anger must be acknowledge to be overcome and, most important, how even the most traumatized self can be healed. Rooted in a profoundly humanist traditional approach, and suffused with the benefit of the latest knowledge about intrafamily relationships, Trapped in the Mirror offers more than the average self-help book; it is truly the first self-heal book for millions.

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Cover

Title Page

Dedication

CONTENTS

INTRODUCTION

1: HOW TO RECOGNIZE A NARCISSIST AND NARCISSISM

2: WHO IS THE ADULT CHILD OF A NARCISSIST?

3: THEY MAKE YOU CONFORM TO THEIR WILL, EVEN IN YOUR THINKING

4: ANNE AND THE INVISIBLE FORCE

5: SUICIDAL URGES: JOHN

6: ATTRACTION TO NARCISSISTIC MATES BY CHILDREN OF NARCISSISTS: DELORES

7: NO RIGHT TO LIVE IF YOU CANNOT LOVE: HOW A NARCISSIST PUT HIS INABILITY TO LOVE ONTO HIS CHILD

8: THE DESTRUCTIVE INNER PARENT: VICTORIA

9: A LIFE DEVOID OF MOTIVATION: NICK

10: THE CHILD OF A NARCISSIST WHO BECOMES A NARCISSIST: ALAN

11: ADDICTIVE BEHAVIOR IN CHILDREN OF NARCISSISTS: MARIE, FAT IS DEAD—OBESITY AS A PROTECTIVE DEVICE

12: RAISING A CHILD TO FULFILL THE NARCISSISTIC PARENT’S HEROIC IMAGE: MARK, UNABLE TO RESPOND TO HIS CHILD’S DEPENDENCY NEEDS, REQUIRES THE CHILD TO BE HEROIC

13: CHANGING FROM WEAKNESS INTO STRENGTH: HOW TO DEVELOP A REAL SENSE OF SELF

14: HOW TO FIND AND HEAL YOUR SELF

15: WHAT DO WE CALL LOVE? WHERE AND HOW DO WE SEEK IT?

16: PEOPLE IN STAGES OF SELF-DEVELOPMENT

17: LEARNING TO RELATE TO THE NARCISSISTIC PARENT: THE WAY IT IS AND HOW IT CAN BE IMPROVED

18: SENDING HOME THE NEGATIVE INTROJECT

EPILOGUE

INDEX

Acknowledgments

A NOTE ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Praise

About the Publisher