Every Child Has His or Her...
The Five Messages of Positive...
A Vision of Possibilities
The Pressure of Parenting
A Short History of Parenting
Violence in, Violence out
Why Children Become Unruly...
A Global Shift in Consciousness
Ask, but Don't Order or Demand
Use "Would You" And Not...
Give up Rhetorical Questions
Give up Explanations
Give up Giving Lectures
Don't Use Feelings to Manipulate
The Magic Word to Create...
A Short Review and Practice
What to Do When Children Resist
Four Skills to Minimize Resistance
The Four Temperaments
Sensitive Children Need Listening...
Active Children Need Preparation...
Responsive Children Need Distraction...
The Gift of Singing
Making Chores Fun
The Gift of Reading
Using Distraction to Redirect
Receptive Children Need Ritual...
Giving Our Children What They...
Why Children Resist
Taking Time to Listen
The Two Conditions
Learning to Delay Gratification
Meeting Your Children's Needs
A Short Update on Punishment
Why and When Punishment Worked
The Positive Side of Punishment
The Simple Proof
The Alternative to Punishment Is...
The Two Reasons a Child Misbehaves
Why Giving Rewards Works
Catching Your Child Being Good or...
The Magic of Rewards
Why Children Resist Our Direction
Rewards According to Temperaments
Always Have Something up Your...
A List of Rewards
Dealing with a Demanding Child in...
Rewards Are Like Dessert
Learning from Natural Consequences
The Fear of Rewards
Learning How to Command
Don't Use Emotions to Command
It's Okay to Make Mistakes
When Emotions Are not Helpful
Yelling Doesn't Work
Make Your Commands Positive
Command but Don't Explain
Reasons and Resistance
A Better Way of Commanding
Choosing Your Battles
The Need for Time Out
How Negative Feelings Get Released
The Ideal Time Out
Explaining Time Outs
Four Common Mistakes
Too Much Time Out
Not Enough Time Out
Adjusting Your Will Versus Caving...
Expecting Your Child to Sit Quietly
Using Time Out as Punishment
When to Give Time Out
Three Strikes and You Are Out
When Time Out Doesn't Work
What Makes the Five Skills Work
Different Needs for Trust and Caring
Continuing to Trust and Care
Boys Are from Mars, Girls Are from...
Mrs. Home Improvement
When Advice Is Good
Boys Forget and Girls Remember
The Culture of Violence
How Temperaments Transform
Different Body Types
Common Sense Intelligence
Different Speeds of Learning
Good Here but Not Good There
From Innocence to Responsibility
Whose Fault Is it Anyway?
Hardwired to Self-Correct
Your Child's Learning Curve
Learning from Mistakes
Learning to Make Amends
Don't Punish, Make Adjustments
How to React When Children Make...
Doing Your Best Is Good Enough
When it Is Not Okay to Make Mistakes
Hiding Mistakes and Not Telling...
Children of Divorced Parents
Not Setting High Standards or...
Justifying Mistakes or Blaming Others
Teens at Risk
Low Self-Esteem and Self-Punishment
Making it Okay to Make Mistakes
The Importance of Managing Feelings
Learning to Manage Feelings
Coping with Loss
Why Expressing Emotion Helps
The Power of Empathy
The Five Second Pause
When Children Resist Empathy
When Parents Express Negative...
The Mistake of Sharing Feelings
Asking Children How They Feel
What You Suppress, Your Children...
The Black Sheep of the Family
Making Negative Emotions Okay
The Fears About Desire
The Virtues of Gratitude
Permission to Negotiate
Learning to Say No
Ten Ways to Say No
Asking for More
Modeling How to Ask
The Power of Asking
Giving Too Much
Children Will Always Want More
Children of Divorced Parents
The Longing of the Human Spirit
How Parents Affect Their Children
Coping with Negative Emotions
The Development of Cognitive...
Children's Need for Reassurance
Children Have a Different Memory
Coping with Increased Will
Balancing Freedom and Control
Two Problems of Losing Control
The Nine-Year Stages of Maturity
The Development of Responsibility
Understanding the Generation Line
Divorce and the Generation Line
Controlling Your Preteens and Teens
Using the Internet to Improve...
Getting Support from Other Parents
Mothers and Daughters
Fathers and Daughters
Mothers and Sons
Fathers and Sons
Teens Secretly Appreciate Limits
What to Do When Your Child Takes...
Dealing with Disrespectful Language
Permission to Speak Freely
The Cycles of Seven
Why Teens Rebel
Improving Communication with Teens
Respect Your Teen's Opinions
Sending Your Teen Away
Instead of "Don't" Use "I Want"
Asking Your Children What They...
The Challenge of Parenting
The Gifts of Greatness
About the Author
Books by John Gray
About the Publisher
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